Month: November 2004

  • She took his loser ass back! My cousin took her husband back. He is on
    his way from Florida right now (his car broke down twice in Georgia. At
    least that state has done something good for a change) and should be
    here tomorrow. She says that this is his absolute last chance. She
    thought John and I might be pissed since we went all the way down there
    to get her stuff. I don’t care about that. This guy is a loser, a
    scammer, a liar, a con and a dumbass all rolled into one. She can do
    WAYYYYYY better. I never trusted him from the first time (and still the
    only time) I met him. He seems to be racist and a homophobe, and just
    generally represents everything I despise. Even though I think he is
    bad for her and a loser, I will support her in what ever she does. She
    is family and she has earned my support. She has done so much for us
    over the years, that my loyalty to her knows no bounds.

    Work is work. Nothing big to talk about, except today we were a lot
    less busy then yesterday. I just wish I didn’t have to get up as early,
    but what can I do. I’m thinking I might start working some OT to make
    up for the lack of money that I am making compared with AAA. The thing
    is, I don’t want to work overtime.

  • I knew there was a lot of stuff I left out about the trip, so I will fill in what I have realized is missing at this time.

    John is crazy. We drank bottle after bottle after bottle of water the
    whole way home. He would not throw his bottles away, instead saving
    them so that he could recycle them when we got home. Now, I’m all for
    recycling, but that is a bit much. Its not like we had tons of room in
    the cab of the U-Haul.

    Throughout the trip, I kept thinking of when Jt and I drove to Florida
    4 1/2 years ago. Dave, Jt and I have taken so many road trips together.
    Jt and I by ourselves have taken a lot of long road
    trips………….ok, maybe only 3 long trips. But, I couldn’t help but
    reminece (spelling please……….damn, I can’t spell worth a damn)
    about all of our trips, and how I miss them. Some of those trips the 3
    of us took, were the best times of my life. We never had so much fun.
    And its sad that its never going to happen again, even though I’m past
    all of that. I really want to travel and take lots of road trips. I
    need to find a new person to drive around the country with. This was my
    only real road trip of the year (sorry, but going to Springfield really
    doesn’t count) and I fear that it will be a long time before I have
    another one. I must find somebody that loves to travel as much as I do,
    as the road is calling my name.

    Although we drove through all red states (that means Republican
    states), I was very disappointed about something I saw in the only blue
    state (glorious IL!!!!). We stopped for gas in Metropolis and read some
    anti Kerry graffitti on the bathroom stahl. It said “Which ferrys (that
    is how the red neck loser spelled fairies) voted for Kerry? All of
    them”. It also said some other anti gay and anti Kerry message. I would
    like to think that it was somebody from Kentucky that did it, since
    Metropolis is right nex to Kentucky, but I fear that it was a fellow
    resident of IL.

    John was his usual non talkative self on this trip. I wanted to come
    out to him during the trip, but I chickened out. It would have been the
    perfect time to do it too, since we had nothing but time on our hands
    to have a long and honest discussion about it. But, instead, we spent
    most of the drive just listening to the radio, as I would flip stations
    when a crappy song came on. Sure, we did talk about some things, but it
    was not like the times with Jt when we would just get into the most
    interesting and long discussions, most of which would eventually lead
    to an argument, but it was fun. The funny part is that John and I did
    not talk sports at all. No baseball talk whatsoever, which is odd.

    Its funny how you keep running into the same people on the road. One
    time when we stopped in Georgia to eat at a Subway inside  at a
    T/A rest stop, we saw this guy with his wife and kids. Hours later
    while gassing up in Tennessee, who pulls up next to us to get gas but
    the same guy. I would have said something to him, but I was too focused
    on the hot boy that was gassing up at the pump across from me (he was
    so yummy!!!). Anywho, what are the odds that we would pull off to eat
    and pull of to gas up at the exact same time and at the 2 exact places?

    The whole time we were in Orlando, I was a little paranoid that we
    would run into Sharon’s loser husband, Robert. As we sat in an empty
    parking lot waiting for the tow truck driver to properly connect the
    car to the trailer, I kept thinking how I would react if he saw us. I
    mean, here was a U-Haul towing a car in an empty parking lot, partially
    blocking the enterance. We really stuck out, so its not like he would
    drive past us and say “Oh, thats nothing, it certainly is not Sharon’s
    car.” Than again, he is pretty fucking stupid, he just might say that.
    But, really though, it would have been obvious it was us. So, I was a
    little worried he would see us and there would be some sort of nasty
    confrontation, but it never happened.

    I was suprised at all the adult book stores we saw on the way. This is
    supposed to be the conservative south, but there seemed to be either a
    porn shop or fireworks shop every 20 miles. Also, advertising for strip
    clubs that catered to truckers, who they gave special discounts to. Not
    that I’m complaining about any of this. I’m always one to encourge
    sexuality and perversion, I think it keeps everybody at a healthy
    sexual state.

    There is really nothing else I can remember about the trip, but if
    anything else pops up, I will be sure to add it, not that anybody
    really cares.

    Man, this post was just all over the place. I wonder if I might be nuts?

  • Man, it feels SOOOOOOOOOOO good to be back home.

    I will try to get the whole trip in this entry, and it might be long, so hang in there. I will start with Friday morning.

    I did not sleep well Thursday night, as I was nervous about flying. We
    left for the airport about 8:20 in the AM, and I was so nervous, I
    seriously thought about taking one of the pills then, but held off til
    shortly before boarding. We arrived and went through security. We were
    selected special to have to be searched extra, I think it was because
    we had a one way ticket. We had to take our shoes off, and at that
    time, I was very happy that I wore socks without holes.

    We boarded the plan at about 10:30. I had already taken one pill and
    was still very nervous. According to the board, the captian, and
    everybody else, we would land at about 2:30PM EST. Josh told me that we
    would land about 2:16, and I was HOPING he was right. Shortly before
    take-off, the pills still had not taken affect and I was very nervous.
    So, I took another one. We got in the air pretty much on time, and off
    we went.

    The best part about being on Ted, is that we were able to listen to
    some of Ted’s radio stations. I even heard American Pie, which I LOVE
    and it was great to hear, but also ironic, since its about a plane
    crash. We were also able to listen to the flight deck, which really put
    me at ease, as I was able to hear when were were going to turn and
    whatnot. It was very reassuring.

    John had the window seat, I was in the middle, and some old guy who I
    swear was dead for most of the flight sat next to me. Overall, though
    the flight was actually pretty good. It went very smooth. If only the
    rest of the trip had gone as good as the flight, we would have been
    sitting pretty. We actually landed at 2:17, which was only a minute off
    of what Josh said it would be. He was very nice in reassuring me about
    the flight, he had all sorts of info and it truely did make me feel
    much better.

    One thing that really saved time was that we did not have to check any
    luggage, so we did not have to wait at baggage claim. Instead, we
    walked around trying to find the exit. We walked until we saw some
    monorail thingy. I decided to take it, for if nothing else, it would be
    fun to ride. We took it to another part of the airport and got out. We
    wandered around and finally found our way outside. Sharon had called a
    cab for us, so we had to meet up with him.

    For some reason, John, who as you might already know is ALWAYS hot,
    only packed sweatshirts. I, on the other hand, packed 2 t-shirts and my
    Nike hoodie. I figured, I wouldn’t need any other clothes, as I was
    hoping to be back my late Saturday night, maybe early Sunday afternoon
    at the latest. So, John was hot, so I gave him one of my shirts. I
    figured I could get by on wearing the same shirt 2 days in a row. It
    was actually only in the low 70s in Orlando, and by evening had dipped
    down into the low 60s.

    It took us quite some time to meet up with the cab driver. He was on a
    different level than us, but eventually we saw him. The first stop was
    to the storage unit that had her car. I’m still not completly convinced
    this guy was a real cab. He had a green Grand Marquis, had no meter and
    was not in the best of condition. The check engine light was on the
    whole time. We seemed to be in this cab for about 20 minutes, but it
    cost $65!

    We arrived at the storage unit and I went inside to get the keys from
    the dude. He gave me the keys and a location of the car. It was a long
    walk from the enterance, but I walked it while John took care of the
    cab. I found it and got it unlocked, but I was unable to get the door
    open. Finally John showed up and was able to get it open, as it turns
    out I was just being an idiot.

    There sat the car. It was loaded with shit. The window was open, so I
    got in and turned the key. Nothing. Made no noises. No dinging.  I
    have had doorknobs that have made more noise. This thing was deader
    than roadkill. Shit. We were supposed to drive this car to get the
    U-Haul, which Sharon had not gotten yet. We called her and she said
    that there were jumper cables in the trunk (which was full of shit by
    the way). She suggested that we ask the worker dude to give us a jump.
    Also, she had said that she got a U-Haul, which was not in the same
    place as the stuff we were supposed to load it with. Anywho, I walked
    back to the main enterance and the kid said he would give me a jump. He
    gave me a ride back to the storage unit. His car was actually
    immaculently clean. It was 6 years old, yet it was the cleanest car I
    had ever been in. He had to be gay.

    He and John connected the cables and I turned the key. Nothing. They
    did an adjustment on the cables and I turned again. The lights went on,
    and it wanted to start. I turned again, and POOF! it started. We asked
    him for directions to the U-Haul and went on our way. I drove the car
    out and we arrived at the U-Haul place in about 10 minutes.

    We got the U-Haul actually pretty quickly. They offered us the
    insurance, which I was about to take when John said not to because it
    would be covered under our car insurance. The workers were going to
    hook the car up to the trailer on the U-Haul for us. I had to drive the
    car onto the trailer, which the worker poorly directed me onto. After
    about 15 minutes, we got it on. It took another few minutes for him to
    poorly hook this car up to the trailer, but eventually he got it. We
    took off. It was very noisey for some reason. Really really loud
    actually, and I suspected something wasn’t right and my suspicions were
    confirmed when somebody told us at a light that our ramps were hanging
    down off the trailer. The morons at the U-Haul place had forgotten to
    push them up.

    We arrived at the other U-haul place, where her stuff was stored, 
    at about 5:30. They told us they normally closed at 7PM, but would stay
    open til 8 for us. Sharon told us that it would only take an hour to
    load stuff up, so I thought we had plenty of time. Her unit was
    acutally up some stairs and we had to carry everything through, for
    lack of a better description, a warehouse. There was a loading dock
    that we would take everything too, but we could not pull the truck up
    to it because of the car attached to the end of it.

    It wound up taking us til 8 to get the truck loaded. There was some
    heavy shit in there too. The problem, was that we had not had a chance
    to stop to eat or even drink much. I had not eaten since breakfast, and
    only water I had was a small cup on the plane. My body was sorta
    dehydrated, and we were carring this very large and heavy piece of
    furniture and because of this, I had a very bad cramp in my
    neck/shoulder of all places. It hurt like hell for a few minutes, and
    still bothered me throughout the night, but I had to go on.

    We eventually finished and headed to Arby’s for dinner. Afterwards we
    were trying to find our way back to the expressway when we had to turn
    around in what we thought was a large parking lot. We had some
    problems. He was trying to back up, and this is when things
    went………..weird. Things did not sound good, at least as far as the
    car and trailer were concerned. I got out to help direct things, and
    this is when I noticed that when he backed up, the truck, car, and
    trailer all went in 3 different directions. It actually looked like the
    trailer was hitting or coming close to hitting the car. One of the
    things that are supposed to go around the tire had come off. Those
    fuckers at the U-Haul place didnt know what they were doing. I
    suggested that we should call a tow truck to put it on the right way.
    We called Sharon to have her get in touch with a tow truck company, but
    she told us to call U-hauls emergency road service, so we did. John
    spoke with them for a few minutes, and they said they would call us
    back. Long story short, they went back and forth calling us. After
    about 45 minutes, they called us back for the last time and said they
    said they could help us, but it would cost $65. We said that was fine.
    Then, they told us that because it was not an emergency, they could not
    help us at all. So, we were back to square one. Sharon called a tow
    truck and they arrived in about 45 minutes.

    The driver was sorta cute. I would definetly do him. He was also very
    very helpful. He was able to give us a jump on the car and properly
    hook up the car. He told us we were lucky we didn’t loose the car. He
    also gave us directions, and only charged us $65, although we did tip
    him. Unfortunetly, he gave us bad directions, but it was ok.

    We drove for about an hour and a half and decided to look for a hotel,
    which was harder then it needed to be. We eventually settled on a Days
    Inn. It was a dump, but we were both very tired and it was 1:45 in the
    AM.  In fact, not only did the one light in the room didnt work,
    but neither did the phone or remote control. I was so tired though, and
    I actually fell asleep pretty quickly.

    We got up about 10. I showered and got ready for the day. John then
    showered and we were on our way to breakfast at a Waffle House. I love
    Waffle House. The workers are always so…………interesting. They
    were very loud and boysterous. After eating, I went to wash my hands in
    the bathroom. One of the workers had just walked out from cleaning it,
    so I thought it would  be fine. Well, I guess her way of cleaning
    it was pouring bleach all over the floor. The fumes were overwhelming.

    We got done and went on our way. Everything was rolling fine until we
    hit Georgia, which I’m convinvced is the 3rd dimension of hell. The
    last time I drove though Georgia, I swear, it rained from one end of
    the state to the other end, and we seemed to be in it FOEEVER. This
    time would be no different.

    We were in southern Georgia and had been on the road for about 3 hours
    when it started to drizzle off and on. We had some construction, and
    therefore traffic was sorta stop and go. We had stopped and started up
    again. A red pick up truck in front of us stopped. John started to
    stop, but it was hard, as we were carrying a lot of weight. It looked
    like were going to hit it. I closed my eyes, hoped, and said to him
    “please stop.” Then, I heard a crash. Shit. We hit it. It sounded
    awful. I said to John “Damn, we should have gotten the insurance on the
    truck. John and the other driver got out. So did a guy in front of the
    truck. At first, I thought it was hit too, but it was not. John got
    back in the car and he said that the pick up truck said we should get
    off at the next exit. We did and pulled into a gas station. His truck
    was not that damaged, it had some scratches on the bumper and his
    trailer hitch was damaged but otherwise it was fine. The U-Haul, on the
    other hand, was dented pretty good. Long story short, we waited for the
    cop to arrive for about 2 hours. I remember thinking that we would not
    get home until Monday.The other guy we hit was on his way back to South
    Carolina, actually. The cop wound up giving John a ticket for
    folllowing too closely.

    Damn, this is one hellva a long post. We continued on, but this time,
    we were both very paranoid of hitting people, so John really took
    things slow. He would be sure not to get too close to people and did
    not speed. It continued to rain, for most of the way though Georgia.
    Fucking state. Again. second time through the state, and it rained a
    lot. Again, we seemed to be in Georgia forever. The best part about it
    though, is that around Atlanta, there are 6 lanes. Sweet. We saw a
    billboard for a radio station called Dave FM. Cool.

    We drove until about 8 when we finally stopped to eat. Subway. It was
    actually at a TA travel place. It was huge. Great bathrooms actually. I
    was even able to finally buy my sunflower seeds, and a road trip is
    never complete until I have seeds.

    Finally, about 10ish, we were out of the shithole state of Georgia. Its
    not that Georgia is all that bad, but its just that I have bad luck in
    that state. Tennessee was beautiful, although it would have been nice
    had it not been dark and we had been able to see the scenery. I have to
    say, though, that driving through the mountins was sorta of nerve
    racking. After the accident, I was sorta paranoid about hitting people,
    and it was rainy, dark, and sorta foggy. Plus, we eventually were going
    down the mountins, which was a steep downgrade.

    We drove until a town called Murphysborro its about 30 miles south of
    Nashville. This time, we got a Ramada, which is usually a reliably good
    hotel. Ironically, we had the same room number as the previous hotel we
    stood at. This place was much, much nicer, although the remote control
    didnt work. We arrived about 11:45PM. I don’t remember the last time I
    was in bed before midnight on a Saturday night. I fell asleep pretty
    quickly, though.

    We got up about 7:30. We grabbed breakfast at Pondreosa, which had an
    average breakfast buffett for only $4. The food was ok, but they had
    really good corn beef hash and browines. This post is getting very
    long, so I should find ways to wrap it up.

    We actually were on a roll until we were about 45 minutes from home.
    There was a very bad accident on I57, and backed up traffic for miles
    on both sides of the road. Had we not been delayed, we would have been
    home by 6. Instead, we arrived at Sharon’s about 6:30ish.

    My sister was there and she was going to give us a ride home. The first
    thing she asked me was “So, did guys stay in an hotels?”. I know I
    should have more patience with her, but sometimes, she just asks the
    dumbest questions. It drove me nuts.

    We got home about 7:20PM. They had already started working on the roof
    today and there are shingles all over my yard. They should be done by
    tomorrow.

  • The food was pretty damn good tonight, but the gravy for the turkey
    really sort of jelled pretty quickly, so it tasted yucky. Everything
    else was very good. There were a ton of dishes to do, so that kept me
    busy for quite some time.

    After dinner, we played some game that………….well, its called
    horse racing, and there is this board and dice and cards and even real
    money involved. I think Amy’s aunt my have made it up, but it was
    pretty cool, except I kept losing. After that game, Scooty and his
    chick arrived and we played Cranium. That was a fun game, but we got
    creamed. After that, we played Trival Pursuit, DVD edition. Normally, I
    do very very good at this game, but for some reason, we got our asses
    kicked again.

    Tomorrow is the big day. I’m pretty nervous about it all. I am
    completely petrified to fly and I’m also worried about her husband
    starting shit with us when we get down there, although she said we
    won’t see him. We also have to drive through all the red states, which
    I was planning on boycotting for the next 4 years.

    Wish us luck. And if this site is never updated again, its because I died down there or on the way back.

  • I went over to Dori’s house for a little while and I finally got to
    meet Zander. He is adorable! But, he always seems to have a scared look
    on his face. I held him for quite some time, and every time he started
    to cry, I would walk around and/or rock him. The other 2 kids were
    adorable as well.

    It looks like Dori might be moving back out here. Financially, things
    are not good for them. Although, I would be thrilled to have her back
    up here, it only makes my concern for her rise. I know that eventually,
    her loser ass husband will leave her again. And it can’t be good for
    those kids to be moving around every couple of years. I hope that
    someday, she is able to get her life together and completely
    straightened out. There are more jobs out here, and they pay a lot
    better, but none of that matters if she keeps spending.

    I woke up this morning and John was playing Christmas music. He said
    that since we will be gone tomorrow, he figured he would play it today.
    I have to say, I’m completly and morally opposed to Christmas music
    before Thanksgiving ends. I have to say, I feel bad for Thanksgiving.
    It is always overshadowed by Christmas, which really isn’t fair.
    Thanksgiving is a great holiday on its own, and it doesn’t need
    Christmas stealing its thunder. After all, its a 4 day weekend every
    year (if you are lucky enough to have it off) where as Christmas is not
    a 4 day weekend every year. And the food, the food just might be better
    on Thanksgiving. Plus, there is football. Sure, Christmas has
    basketball, but thats not nearly as big of a tradtion as football on
    Thanksgiving. And than there are TONS of Christmas songs, and only 1
    Thanksgiving song, as far as I know. Also, tons of Christmas movies,
    and not many Thanksgiving movies. And to make things even worse, most
    of those Christmas movies are released before Thanksgivng, and in some
    cases, the day before Thanksgiving. And then there are those people
    that put up Christmas decorations before Thanksgiving. Even cities and
    towns have Christmas type things before Thanksgiving, like the whole
    magnificent mile holiday Christmas thing, complete with Santa Claus and
    Mickey Mouse. Meanwhile, Thanksgiving is in the background screaming
    “HELLO, WHAT ABOUT ME?”  I wonder if Thanksgiving or its
    parents are offended by this. After all, you wait all year long for
    your big day in the sun, and as it gets close, people are not talking
    about you, but instead overlooking you in favor of Christmas. I wonder
    if Thanksgiving ever gets jealous of Christmas. I hope it doesn’t.
    Thanksgiving should be secure in itself in being a great holiday. Maybe
    we call can start errecting (heheheheheh, I said errect) a giant
    Thanksgiving Pilgrim Hat in our living rooms just like people errect
    (heeheheheheh again!) a Christmas tree. Just remember Thanksgiving,
    there are plenty of us that love you and will not treat you any less
    than Christmas.

  • Thank God for Scooty. He is going to drug me up real good so that I
    won’t freak out when we fly. He gave me a perscription, and it only
    cost 13 dollars American. Much to my suprise, the Walgreens near my
    house is not only open 24 hours, but it also fills perscriptions 24
    hours as well.

    Clems was cool. Pool was pool……………what can I say, most of the
    time I suck. For some reason, Randy kept picking everybody up. And
    Scooty kept dancing, although I have to say, when Outkast came on, we
    both danced, and horribley I might add, but it was ok because it was
    Clem’s, and its almost impossible to embarass yourself there, because
    by comparsion, the other people there are usually much
    worse…………..that was one hellva long run on sentence.

  • Its all set: John and I leave Friday at 10:55 in the AM. Man, I hate flying.

    We had some 2 hour class today about ethics and complience at work. It
    was boring, they showed us one of those cheesy videos with stupid
    people, alhtough they did give us a free stress ball person thingy. The
    rest of work was very very slow, we were not busy at all.

    We were supposed to all meet at Gino’s East at 6:30. Because of the
    snow, I heard that the roads were very very bad, so I pretty much left
    right after work to head over there. I got on the road about 5:15, and
    much to my suprise, it only took about a half hour. I sat in the car
    for about 15 minutes before going in. It was 6, and I was a half hour
    early. I waited, and waited, and waited. I called Dave twice and Keith
    and Heather once. No dice. Nobody picked up. Finally, shortly after 7,
    I gave up and left. I drove to Keith and Heather’s, but nobody was
    there. So, I went home. I heard a couple of messages on the machine
    from Kelli and Heather both saying that they weren’t going. I called
    Scooty, he said they had just left IHOP. Damn. All this could have been
    avoided if I had just had a cell phone. But, no! I refuse to get one
    and will still refuse to get one.

    I was starving, so I went to Subway to get a delicious meatball
    sandwhich, on their great Italian Pramasean bread. The girl behind the
    counter said they were all out of all bread except white, wheat, and
    honey-oat wheat. And, they only had 6 inchs of each. So, if I wanted a
    footlong, I would have to mix and match. I was very hungry, so I mixed
    and matched. I’m not sure, but I think the girl taking my order was
    flirting with me. She asked me what I was doing for Thanksgiving. Then,
    she asked me if I had a footlong for her………….wait, she didn’t
    ask that. But, she asked me if I was having turkey for Thanksgiving. I
    said that “it damn well better be a turkey, because thats what it says
    on the package. I would be pretty suprised if I opened it and it was,
    say, a salmon, or a chicken.” This turkey banter continued for a few
    minutes. She gave me my total and it was right about then that I
    realized I did not have my wallet with me. Damn! What a fucking night.
    I went back home and got it, and promptly returned. I said “Hi. I have
    a sandwhich on lay-a-way.” She laughed and we completed the
    transaction. I told her I had checked and it was indeed a turkey that I
    had at my house.

    Although most of my night has been very crappy, one very good thing
    which really made my day is the fact that Dori is in town! I shall see
    her hopefully tonight, if not then tomorrow.

  • Man, today seemed like such a busy day. I found at at work that I can
    work overtime if I want, but I probably won’t be able to do it til next
    week at the earliest. There is this one insurance agent that keeps
    calling everyday, he is pissed off about something and for some reason,
    he keeps getting me. I hope that today was the last day I have to talk
    to him, but i doubt it.

    Today, I got home from work and had a million things to do. First, I
    exercised. Then, I called Tom the roofer (kinda sounds like a mafia
    nickname, doesn’t it?) back. He said he was going to come over in about
    a half hour, or when his wife got home. I proceeded to eat dinner and
    do the dishes. I called Sharon back with a Florida update. I told her
    that airline prices on Yahoo! are pretty reasonable for Friday. I still
    don’t have a partner to go with me, but I hope to have that resolved
    within the next 24 hours. I was still waiting for Tom to come over, so
    I called Danel. Got her voicemail. Left a message (do you really need
    to hear every detail? just tell me to shutup!). I started to pay bills
    and she called back. We spoke for about 20 minutes. After we got off
    (the phone call, you pervert!), I finished paying bills. And still, its
    2 1/2 hours later, no Tom. I’m busy the rest of the week, so tonight
    was the best time.

    Tomorrow night is supposed to be a beanbag tournament at a local bar. Wish me luck, I’m really looking forward to it.

  • I packed a bag with a change of clothes when I went to Dave and Kelli’s
    Saturday. I was putting that bag bag in my closet tonight when
    something fell out. It was John’s wallet. This the the wallet that he
    thought he lost at Christie’s wedding, but for some reason, it was in
    my bag. NO, I DID NOT STEAL IT!

  • Well, it looks like we will be going to Florida, I’m pretty sure Tony
    is going to go.  The only problem is getting there. We might have
    to drive, which means renting a car and dropping it off down there. I
    would love to drive, but even I realize that flying might be better,
    although I HATE HATE HATE to fly. A couple of other things have
    changed. We will only have to bring back a U-Haul and 1 car. And, this
    part really really really sucks. We have to meet up with her husband
    down there. I don’t want to see him. He is a complete loser. I don’t
    like him at all. I’m going to be very cold towards him. I just hope he
    doesn’t go “Artest” (for meaning on that, its later in the post ) on my
    ass, but I don’t think he will.

    Speaking of Artest, damn he is fucking nuts. Now, back when Ron Artest
    was with the Bulls, (and even his first year with the Pacers) he was my
    favorite player. I loved the way he played…………except for the
    fact that he was a headcase. He played with a lot of intensity. He
    played the type of defense I like to play, and could change a game with
    his defense alone. But, the Bulls traded him because he was nuts and
    refused to take medication to control himself. And he has been a
    complete and utter headcase since getting to Indiana. Always getting
    suspended. Earlier this month, he asked for a month off to promote his
    rap album (don’t even get me started on atheletes that make
    music………..thats a whole different situation), and this was 3
    games into an 82 game season. Then there was last night, which in my
    opinion, was not only the ugliest scene in the history of the NBA, but
    one of the ugliest in sports history.

    Now, I’m not defending the fans. The whole city of Detroit should be
    embarrassed. Those fans should be arrested and prosecuted to the full
    extent of the law. But, Artest never should have gone into the stands.
    The behavior by the fans and the players was inexcuseable. But, the
    players have to be smarter than that. For starters, you open yourself
    up to a whole shitload of lawsuits. Also, there are 20,000 fans. You
    are way out numbered. You have to be the professional here. As far as
    I’m concerned, fans should NEVER go onto the playing field, and players
    should NEVER go into the stands, no matter what.

    As for Artest, (and this will never happen, because the union will
    fight it) I would suspend him for the rest of the
    season…………..without pay. It would give him plenty of time to
    promote that rap album that wasn’t going to sell to begin with and will
    sell even less now. As far as I’m concerned, he has had too many
    breakdowns and situations in the past to not be suspended for a long
    long time. And, hopefully, he will be charged and sentenced to anger
    management classes, and hopefully, he will take his medication (I heard
    his is on medication) and get his act together.

    One other very sad scene, one of the players illegitamate childern was
    crying in the stands and he was being hugged and consoled by his
    illegitemate half brother. This really tugged at my heart strings, as
    when I see kids affected by things, it gets to me.