June 22, 2006
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Well, I guess its time to blog about the story that has everybody
talking, Sox manager Ozzie Guillen called Sun-Times columnist Jay
Marriotti a fag. First of all, being a rabid, huge Cub fan, I’m
officially not supposed to like Ozzie, but I do think he is a great
manager and would kill to have him manage the Cubs. As for Marriotti, I
don’t read him often, but I can honestly say, he never has a good thing
to say about anybody. Now, onto the issue of the day. This is one of
those stories in which everybody has an opinion, and as a gay baseball
fan living in the Chicagoland area, of course, I have an opinion too.
Obviously, he shouldn’t have said it. The question is, is Ozzie Gullian
homophobic? The knee jerk reaction that offended people have is a
resounding yes. Others say its just Ozzie being Ozzie. And yet others
have other opinions, as one simple minded fuck called up to a radio
station said “you can’t compare it to somebody using a racial slur,
because gay people choose to do something that they know is morally
wrong.” Ok, I’m not even going to go there. Yet. Let’s just breakdown
what Ozzie said. I’m going to stereotype here. Let’s face it, sports is
filled with gay bigotry and people that are filled with homophobia.
Ozzie is hispanic, and sad to say, most minorities do not approve of
gays. I know, it might sound bad for me to say that, but let’s face it,
its true. And in sports, the word fag is thrown around. A lot. When
Jordan was with the Wizards, he called Kwame Brown a “flaming faggot.”
Lions GM Matt Millen once called a Chiefs player a faggot. Those are
just 2 examples. And now, of course, Ozzie. He tried to apologize and
say that he didn’t mean to offend gays, saying something to the effect
of “I know lots of them kind of people”, which is something
bigoted people do when they offend a certain class of people, they
state their racial or gay resume, as I like to say. Honestly, I’m sure
he didn’t intend on offended gays. But what he and many others just
don’t get is that when you call a straight person that, you are
basically treating gays like 2nd class citizens. Its as if you are
saying “I’m really upset, so I’m going to call him something that is
one of the worst things you can be, and that is gay.” Allow me to offer
an analogy. Back in the day, God fearing people thought the worst thing
that could happen to you was to be damned to hell by God. So, the
phrase “God Damn” came into use. Its sorta along those same lines. Fag
or faggot represents being gay, and being gay is morally wrong, so I’m
going to use it to really insult somebody, because nobody wants to be
called gay. And therefore, it is just like using a racial slur, only in
a way, its worse. Because, calling somebody the “N” word is usually
only used against blacks. You wouldn’t call a white or asian person the
“N” word. But, the term fag or faggot, that can be used to apply to
anybody. And lets say for argument’s sake, being gay was a choice,
which as we know, it certainly is not. But, just for the case of the
argument. What would be so wrong about being gay? How would being gay
be any more morally wrong than, say, oral sex? That dope that called
the radio station, I bet he likes a good blow job from his girlfriend.
Yet, calling her a cocksucker would probably really piss him off, even
though, using his moral standards, being a cocksucker is morally wrong.
In closing, none of these gay or racial slurs are acceptable and should
never be tolerated. People have freedom of speech, so they should not
be held legally accountable for anything they say, but from other
standpoints, yeah, they should be held accountable.
Comments (2)
RYC: Not because we like it…because we like to laugh at Fox and Friends. I guess I should have made that more clear
I loved this blog…the part about being morally wrong was great, and so true.
Also, in Ozzie’s defense [and this is a very loose defense, as everything homophobic and anti-gay pisses me off, as I have many dear friends who are gay, and I take it personally for their sake], the term ‘gay’ and ‘fag’ are used very loosely in our society. I, for one, am guilty sometimes, although I have never and will never use the word ‘fag’, but I have been caught referring to stuff as ‘gay’ before. Just a broad example, ‘oh, that’s so gay!’. I don’t even realize I do it, and my gay friends have called me out on it many times. The word ‘fag’ is in use far too much with macho, tough guys and it bugs me. I can’t remember how many times I heard my ex and his friends call each other a fag. It drove me nuts, but I guess my bad habit of referring to things as gay is just as bad.
Anyway, this is a long comment, but I loved the blog.